Bench Marks

A walk in nature is just the ticket right now, with the fall colors peaking and crisp air beckoning. i took a solo walk around Cowan’s Gap Lake, near our vacation cabin, on Sunday while my more ambitious companions climbed up the mountain to the overlook. I’m not ready for that yet post back surgery.

The lake path is a flat 1.5 mile loop which skirts this small but very photogenic lake in Fulton County, PA. We’ve been walking around this lake for 35 years (or more). It is the lake of our daughter’s childhood, as Lake Champlain (quite a lot larger but no less nostalgic) was mine.

This time, I sought to photograph several memorial benches that dot the lake. This is a fairly recent phenomenon, and one that is truly appreciated as I get older and need to rest along the way. There used to be just a few, very rustic, places to sit (mostly fashioned from large, felled trees, it seemed). Not sure when the park started accepting benches in people’s honor, but I thank them for doing so, and for the families that donated them.

As I read the inscriptions, I was taken with the range of ages of those memorized, as well as the different sentiments and styles. I didn’t know any of these people, and though I was compelled to try to find their obituaries online, I thought better of it. Just noting that they enjoyed the park and the lake as much as I have over the years made them my friends and compatriots.

I’m thinking of where around the lake I would want a bench, if I decide that is something that I’d like to be remembered by some day. Meanwhile, join me in commemorating lives spent enjoying the out of doors, as we approach All Saint’s Day/Day of the Dead.

First, a bit of context. Here is a view of the lake in its autumn splendor last weekend. Yes, Canada Geese are a nuisance but they lend a bit of scale and interest to the scenery!
The first bench I encountered was Richard Stahle Sr. Note there are no dates, but since he was a “Happy Pappy” which is “grandfather” in the local lingo, I guess he lived a long and fruitful life. (I found the orange Halloween fangs on the ground near the bench. )
Love this sentiment. And the fact that the campground at Cowan’s Gap has “hosts.” I think the dates refer to those that she served as a host!
I like the quotes, wonder when they were gathered. He was sadly only sixteen years old.
Another soul lost too young. The connection to the lake is touching.
Bookmarking with another view of the lake. Not too shabby a place for a peaceful and contemplative commemorative bench, I’d say.

One thought on “Bench Marks

  1. Betty, the text and the photos are beautiful. I love the stories of the benches.but the photos are truly beautiful. Thank you.

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